What is a man?

What is a man?

The only answer I really care about is “whatever you want it to be”. Like all men, I’ve spent my life in a context of weirdly reductive, gender essentialist expectations — a man is physically strong, competitive, aggressive, stoic — that I couldn’t live up to because, generally speaking, that’s not what I am. Am I less of a man because I’m not aggressive…

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Writer: of code, fiction, and strategy. Trying to work for social good.

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Ben Werdmuller

Ben Werdmuller

Writer: of code, fiction, and strategy. Trying to work for social good.